I Don’t Do Renovations
Most people treat relationships like projects. They require constant work, endless compromise, and emotional renovations. That never fit me. I’ve spent years doing the real work — healing, growing, and building a life I actually like. I don’t want to sign up to fix someone else’s cracks. That’s why this shirt exists.
How the shirt was born
This design came from my life. I prefer freedom, clear boundaries, and honest connections. I’ve had the best, simplest relationships with people who show up, enjoy time together, and respect the rest of our lives. A two-hour hangout twice a week. Dinner, good company, great sex, then we go our separate ways. No drama. No pressure. No renovations.
That’s not a moral stance or a stunt. It’s a lifestyle that works for me. It isn’t about being cold. It’s about knowing my worth and not wasting time on projects that aren’t mutual.
Real talk: sex, standards, and boundaries
People who know me say I “should’ve been a man” because I don’t play the usual games. I don’t call to obsess. I leave when I say I’m leaving. If someone shows up and does their part, fine — I’ll call again. If not, I move on. That’s boundary work. That’s self-respect.
I’m sexual. I’ve always been sexual. I don’t believe sex is bad. It’s natural, healing, and good for mental and physical health when it’s consensual and honest. If you’re wired like me, a no-drama, no-strings, high-quality connection is liberation — not rejection. This shirt is for people who choose freedom over fixes.